00:00 logical parents you know what's the you

00:02 know what's this

00:03 sobering truth about relationships

00:06 you know look at this

00:08 everything is words when you break down

00:11 words reality makes more sense the

00:13 matrix gets easier

00:16 what is dating chad go define it in your

00:18 terms no wrong answers

00:26 dating

00:27 equals

00:29 sec

00:30 that's the truth

00:32 this i didn't understand when i was a

00:34 kid 20 never i always thought this is

00:36 stupid take

00:38 this is all this word means

00:41 this is this is all this word means and

00:44 this is really what divides it from

00:56 [Music]

00:58 so if if this is all the word the the

01:01 word means

01:03 but we choose to blur it

01:05 right

01:08 then it means mate

01:10 right if this is all it means then this

01:14 is a lot more important than we thought

01:17 not to get a lot of it but from that one

01:19 person you like

01:20 that this you have to always have

01:23 in the equation and i'm the kind of guy

01:25 that lowers my libido when i get used to

01:27 someone and i kind of get

01:29 you know i'm slower to the to the sack

01:31 or whatever whatever you call it so i'm

01:33 probably i'm like those stingy

01:35 housewives that people talk about

01:37 so i i sympathize with that once when

01:40 people say that right

01:43 when chad says that

01:45 but it's so interesting to me how this

01:47 word i always thought was meaningless

01:50 my whole life

01:52 i always thought it was just a nut

01:54 and then i found out this word is the

01:57 only thing

01:58 that bridges you two together

02:01 everything else doesn't matter

02:04 and i'm like what about the dinner nope

02:06 if this is not there it doesn't matter

02:08 well what about golfing together nope if

02:12 this is there then this is what you're

02:13 doing

02:14 if it's not there then this is what

02:16 you're doing

02:17 well what about you guys collabing

02:19 together if this isn't there then this

02:21 is what you guys are doing

02:23 right

02:24 and it's so interesting how

02:26 as obsessed the society is with this

02:29 they do this one

02:36 in

02:37 quantity which anyone can tell you

02:41 this word means quality quantity is not

02:44 the answer

02:45 you know the only reason i went to

02:47 quantity is to learn to find quality

02:49 checks like to exp up

02:52 but if i could have exp without going

02:54 through the quantity i would never hook

02:56 up with [ __ ] randoms

02:58 right i would have never done this part

03:00 but my crush

03:03 needed it right my crush needed it i

03:06 don't know why biologically

03:08 i don't blame her because it's in her

03:10 dna

03:11 but um

03:13 to get this crush right here

03:17 right

03:20 [Music]

03:22 to get this crush

03:24 i needed to go for quantity

03:27 and then

03:28 i tied these guys up

03:31 right

03:33 isn't that so strange

03:37 but to me the most interesting part is

03:40 this word has it matters so much we talk

03:44 about every day of our lives this this

03:46 word that we obsess over

03:48 that's everywhere that's sold to us

03:52 but really when we do it we don't

03:55 consider it a job

03:57 and so if you're in a long term what's

04:00 that called

04:03 then you are committing to

04:06 a part-time job

04:08 of this

04:11 and i never understood that until i was

04:13 like i'm gonna try my best to make her

04:15 happy to see if i have the ability not

04:18 just regular happy

04:20 and then i was like oh my god

04:22 it's actually a job like you have to

04:24 clock in you have to and you have to

04:26 like

04:27 always be fresh always be ready and

04:30 it turned and you know we as guys don't

04:32 even want to be fresh if we're sweating

04:33 we don't want to take a fourth shower

04:35 that day right

04:37 so it's so interesting to me that like

04:40 um people will try and sell me long

04:43 terms and i'll say my job is twitch

04:47 how could i do a part-time job of this

04:50 this will actually consume me

04:53 right or i could go half-ass this if i

04:56 go half-assed the s-word

04:59 then i can do twitch and get my rocks

05:01 off but then i'm snaking her

05:05 so and a lot of guys do that like the

05:07 chat types they're like mine mind my

05:08 mind

05:09 right

05:10 and it's very weird

05:24 are you gonna you're gonna watch you

05:26 gotta watch out yucky you gotta watch

05:30 out

05:33 for buzzwords chat

05:37 look

05:39 here are buzz words you'll hear from

05:40 dumb liberals

05:43 okay

05:45 and you won't hear them from

05:47 uh educated lefties you won't

05:50 hear some buds words

05:54 hang out

05:55 are we hanging

05:58 did y'all hang

06:00 these words are how cowards ask

06:04 their friend groups in whatsapp

06:06 if they banged

06:09 right these are cowardly words right

06:11 you'll never hear me ask these in a

06:13 podcast i'm not pc

06:15 right

06:16 these cowardly buzzwords

06:18 these are the ones you got to watch out

06:20 for once you start counting and i dare

06:22 you to start counting how many times

06:24 your friends say this

06:25 you'll start noticing that it's

06:30 so frequent someone asks hey did you

06:33 guys

06:34 did you guys hang as in did you guys do

06:37 this

06:38 right and you start seeing how obsessed

06:40 people are even when they're bored and

06:43 not interested

06:45 they're obsessed with knowing or the

06:47 potential if i talk to someone on call

06:50 so guys their potential of this

06:52 why is chad so obsessed with me getting

06:55 my nut off because

06:58 the more

06:59 you watch someone else not right

07:03 the more you try and draw connections to

07:06 hey

07:06 maybe i can do that too

07:08 circa says something funny here and he

07:10 timed it right there and the punchline

07:13 hit here

07:14 that was really good

07:16 she enjoyed that

07:17 maybe comedy is better than gucci

07:20 right

07:21 people a lot of people hate me watch me

07:24 for

07:24 it's called

07:26 game but really what game is

07:29 is the c word that no one will say charm

07:33 right

07:34 and charm just means to charge

07:37 right it has a different definition in

07:39 the school of zircology

07:41 charm is the charge right and your job

07:43 is to be the catalyst for this

07:46 not the initiator believe it or not

07:49 not the initiator you want enthusiast

07:52 you want enthusiasm from your partner

07:54 they will initiate

07:55 once they're initiating

07:58 your life becomes so much easier but a

08:00 lot of guys will do this

08:09 here look at this look how pathetic this

08:11 is

08:12 this guy will initiate 90

08:15 of interactions

08:18 if i'm i've never been this guy in my

08:20 life because i found it cringe

08:23 if

08:24 if it does not feel

08:26 damn near 50 50 which is impossible

08:30 because the guy's gonna want more

08:32 but if it's not feeling like this

08:35 and usually people feel this in the

08:37 honeymoon stage

08:38 then guess what

08:40 y'all

08:41 will

08:42 fail

08:43 right if she don't initiate she's not

08:46 yours

08:47 does this make sense

09:08 and a lot of people are like that

09:09 doesn't work she don't initiate you

09:12 you don't go to the [ __ ] park with

09:14 your girl

09:15 and not charge her i'm not saying be a

09:17 creep at the park

09:19 okay

09:19 right there's there's people watching

09:23 right

09:24 but

09:25 everything will come down to the p word

09:27 play right

09:30 this is all girls feel when they enter

09:33 my podcast that's why they're so

09:35 freaking charged compared to other

09:37 podcasts

09:39 this word

09:40 is so underrated

09:43 this word can get you

09:45 so much box if you want to word it like

09:47 that

09:48 but

09:49 a lot of people including has don't

09:51 believe in it which really really is bad

09:55 this word gets you probably 70 more

10:00 and no one will ever know because this

10:02 word doesn't mean long term this means

10:05 play with me play with me play with me

10:07 this is way more convincing than stay

10:10 with me long term i am an alpha

10:12 right you master this you get a lot of

10:15 quantity and then you go back to long

10:18 term

10:26 was it the marxist what do you say

10:29 yeah thank you mods

10:33 oh yeah

10:35 so i guess

10:37 just be careful be careful you don't

10:39 become like the best version of yourself

10:41 that can't

10:43 right

10:44 like a lot of people like what's the

10:45 difference from you and has when you

10:46 guys run game

10:48 and i would say it's this

10:50 right

10:51 has this kind of uh doesn't enter his

10:53 youthful side which you know i i have

10:55 weeks

10:56 months sometimes where i do that

10:58 but usually i have to run a podcast get

11:01 a lot of guests and it involves this

11:03 energy

11:04 right

11:05 oh my god anavar you look so cute today

11:08 thank you john this

11:11 will get you subscriptions

11:13 right this

11:14 is the highest level sharing gun in the

11:17 game

11:18 right but how's it still in the strength

11:20 phase

11:22 which is good but what strength phase

11:24 does is

11:26 here's the problem

11:27 if you go hyper masculine

11:29 if you're in your strength mode let's

11:31 call it that

11:36 here's what you're

11:37 all you're signaling you're a tower this

11:40 you become this giant [ __ ] of the tower

11:43 right

11:45 and here's the biggest problem with has

11:47 uh not a problem but to me it's a

11:49 problem because i don't

11:51 waste i don't like to waste time

11:53 right but look at this

11:57 he's a tower right now craig

12:00 what is has signaling with strength to

12:03 women

12:04 all he is signaling is

12:07 look at this

12:12 right the tower of strength and they

12:14 like it they smile at it right the

12:16 chicks love it

12:18 here they are

12:19 they go oh my god i haven't seen a tower

12:21 before i usually just see cucks

12:23 everywhere see the cucks the c's

12:26 right the problem with this is chat what

12:29 is he signaling

12:31 right and i studied

12:33 have people watch for so long that

12:36 it's so interesting to me how obvious

12:38 this this is

12:39 what is he signaling

12:42 all he is signaling to someone like

12:44 let's say what's that girl's name ink

12:46 bites duh

12:48 what is how signaling to inkbites

12:51 right

12:53 he is signaling

12:55 that wanky is based as [ __ ] bro

12:59 a long

13:00 term

13:02 right it's just long-term energy right

13:05 good job winky

13:06 so now

13:07 why am i critiquing this signal chad why

13:13 why why am i critiquing

13:15 this signal

13:18 because

13:21 i'll let you guys have it first actually

13:23 why is this

13:24 super bad

13:32 right this is super good i mean

13:35 it's super good to be known as a tower

13:38 but why is it bad to always be this mode

13:55 no girl will risk leaving her current

13:57 for a tower right

14:00 it's a hell of a risk for the girl

14:03 and that means

14:06 no play time

14:07 now if he went

14:13 if he went

14:14 he if he came in as a tower and they

14:16 said oh my god masculine and then

14:17 switched up and went playful vague

14:20 he can infiltrate

14:22 he can infiltrate the dms suit he will

14:25 be so much more kgb and effective

14:28 right

14:30 however

14:32 he's just signaling

14:33 um

14:34 [Music]

14:36 masculine right

14:38 when really

14:39 you want to enter their short-term

14:41 thought

14:44 right when you enter their short-term

14:46 thought it's this right and they have

14:48 this with friends too

14:50 they have guy friends that they're

14:51 playful with but they don't hook up

14:53 this

14:54 is all you need to connect

14:57 right

14:58 as soon as you connect this

15:00 as soon as you have it

15:02 right you do it again and again again

15:04 then you bring the [ __ ] tower

15:07 and then she goes oh [ __ ] he switched it

15:08 on me and then she got to make a choice

15:11 all right then you go full masculine

15:14 flip the whole script and go now

15:15 honeymoon phase is over

15:18 uh i'm not sharing

15:20 all right and i think this is more

15:21 effective because um

15:24 here's the truth

15:47 women play a thousand times more games

15:50 than when it comes when it comes to

15:52 dating than stupid men who are direct by

15:55 accident a lot of guys leak their

15:57 intentions

15:58 right

15:59 which you know i'm very direct but look

16:02 at me you know

16:05 and remember

16:10 the name of the game is

16:12 the name of the game is

16:16 you

16:18 are

16:19 not

16:20 god

16:22 as soon as a girl feels this energy come

16:25 from you

16:28 100 percent

16:29 [Music]

16:31 respect shoots up

16:34 remember they only date at equal level

16:36 or above

16:38 never mcdonald's

16:43 right

16:44 so what do mods give them

16:47 mods

16:49 mods will do this

16:52 mods will literally call them

16:57 god

16:58 every day of their life

17:00 right

17:01 that's why the badass says no you're not

17:03 god who the [ __ ] do you think you are

17:06 and she laughs she goes i guess you

17:08 caught me

17:09 because

17:11 they're running deception

17:13 by accident it's not their fault they

17:16 know not of their sins

17:19 they know not of their sins

17:25 that's why we forgive them

17:27 right

17:28 if you grew up with mtv i if you grew up

17:30 on mtv and you turned into a liar and a

17:32 succubus it's not your fault it's mtv's

17:35 fault i'm not going to blame her at all

17:38 matter of fact if i had a daughter she'd

17:40 probably be one too right

17:42 so

17:44 it's really interesting how

17:47 um

17:48 a lot of times

17:50 it's just like a bench press dating is

17:52 just like a bench press you can never

17:53 give tips on the internet about bench

17:55 press because biomechanically everyone's

17:58 different

17:58 zerka has to go play because he looks

18:01 scary

18:02 right

18:03 a playful dude has to go serious

18:06 to look serious and you know a little

18:08 scary so so he meets you

18:11 i would never do what circa does if

18:14 circle was like five two

18:16 if i was five two and i was like

18:18 hey baby girl do you wanna get some

18:20 cotton candy with me and she goes hee

18:22 hee john

18:23 you're five two you can't even afford

18:26 cotton candy because no one will offer

18:28 your short ass a job

18:30 right you cannot go hyper [ __ ]

18:32 playful

18:34 if you look like a [ __ ] hyper playful

18:35 [ __ ]

18:37 right it's a different they're different

18:39 rules for everyone right that's why when

18:42 i see a dude and i do an analysis i go

18:44 oh i could tweak this guy right i could

18:46 tweak this guy

18:48 you know i think one dude at the club i

18:50 said you know if you just

18:52 let silence happen when you talk to them

18:54 and stop filling in dead air her

18:57 attraction with for you will go up

19:00 but these guys will be like this she

19:01 hasn't said anything so what about

19:03 avengers did you like that one too

19:04 because i know you like marvel

19:06 right

19:07 no this is what you say you

19:09 intentionally slow down your words not

19:13 on the date you do it with your

19:15 co-workers you just get into the

19:16 practice of slowing down

19:19 who you are you know i go a thousand

19:21 miles per hour it's creepy it's bad it's

19:24 very bad you know i get away with murder

19:26 because i'm high level you know

19:29 but

19:30 here's what you do you go

19:33 oh did you like the avengers movie and

19:35 then it goes quiet and she's thinking of

19:36 an answer because she's nervous

19:38 and you let them suffer

19:40 you let them suffer

19:42 and

19:43 look somewhere else

19:46 look here look there

19:49 lean back don't be up in the grill

19:52 a [ __ ] weak man is always filling in

19:56 dead air and that's why you're getting

19:57 exhausted on dates

19:59 right

20:00 there's two types of men at the movie

20:02 theater the anxious guy that can't wait

20:04 to get the date over with and the guy

20:06 who leans back in his [ __ ] chair

20:09 right you're supposed to enjoy the day

20:11 too stop being nervous

20:13 right

20:14 you know not most men don't even know

20:16 what's happening in the movie because

20:17 they're thinking of the date so much

20:19 and a lot of girls just watch the movie

20:21 they just enjoy the [ __ ] movie

20:23 i'm like what the [ __ ] how come she gets

20:25 to enjoy the movie i can this is so

20:27 [ __ ] unfair i have to think about

20:29 what am i gonna do after do i lean in do

20:31 i i lean back and the credits roll and

20:34 she's like john we've been here and the

20:36 credits have gone are we leaving i go

20:38 i'm not ready

20:40 and all of our anxiety stops

20:43 right i will i will sit in the theater

20:45 for two hours if i have to get the

20:47 janitor i want a conversation bro

20:50 i will i will literally decelerate them

20:53 for two hours after the theater is done

20:56 because if you are speeding me up

20:58 because you're nervous

21:00 the whole show can stop until you're

21:02 ready when they decelerate then they

21:04 start kissing and stuff like that right

21:06 but it's like all women do on in dates

21:09 is their anxiety is spiked through the

21:11 roof and they project it on you

21:13 oh my god did you did you lose your

21:15 wallet oh my god did you

21:17 did you wear those shoes to look taller

21:19 oh my god did you buy that shirt to look

21:21 wider oh my god

21:23 and it's like the whole time and then

21:25 you find out she wants a boob job and

21:26 [ __ ] and you're like oh god that's why

21:27 you're focusing on the stripe on my

21:29 shirt like what the [ __ ]

21:31 and like they just project so much

21:33 insecurity into you and [ __ ] test you a

21:35 million times and you're like dude

21:37 you know and sometimes i straight up

21:38 check people hey

21:40 i'm hey i'm not i'm not no [ __ ]

21:42 pee-wee don't [ __ ] test me i don't want

21:44 your [ __ ] this now don't ask me how many

21:46 girls i've been with i don't do that

21:48 enjoy the [ __ ] movie and they'll be

21:50 like this

21:53 really now john

21:56 i can't ask you a question

21:59 no i'm not like the other dudes that are

22:00 gonna oh you know i've been with this

22:02 many

22:04 you know

22:06 i've even said like john how many girls

22:08 you've been with who are you to know

22:11 who well you're taking me on a date so i

22:13 guess i'm somebody

22:15 no i've just put in your mind that

22:17 you're somebody if you date me

22:19 i am leonardo dicaprio welcome to

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